Warning: During this episode we talk about masturbation, sex and porn addiction, and betrayal.

Julianne Cusick is a therapist and betrayal trauma specialist in Colorado and is also an AANE certified therapist. Julianne shares a little about her personal story through betrayal trauma early in her marriage. She also talks about how discovering her adopted daughter is autistic led her down another path in her marriage, as she and her husband also learned they were a neurodiverse couple.

During this episode we talk about how it feels to watch your partner excel in all areas of his life and repeatedly find that there are challenges that only seem to exist in your intimate relationship. As expectations inside the relationship increase, anxiety can grow as partners try to meet requests made of them. A unique set of challenges manifests and we address them during this episode. Julianne also describes the assessment process she goes through to determine if a couple is neurodiverse. It's not about blame or shame, it's about understanding, compassion and growth. Traditional couples counseling can be very damaging when there is "unknown neurodiversity' and it is critical to have an experienced therapist or coach who can serve as an interpreter and investigator, and provide a path forward that is healing and hopeful.

Some of the other issues we address in this powerful episode include:

Co-dependence
The impact of low self-esteem and self-worth
How IQ can drop when anxiety is present
Developing self-resilience
The importance of understanding each other's difference perspectives (Duck-Bunny picture)
Holding space for each other
Using addictions and compulsions to numb trauma
The Minwalla Method for treating betrayal

This is a powerful episode that I hope will help many individuals and couples who are experiencing challenges with betrayal trauma or addictions. Suffering in silence, or alone, and not being able to find the help, support and the healing tools needed-can be devastating. I hope this episode brings some light, hope and understanding to others.

Please visit Julianne's website to learn more about her work: www.restoringthesoul.com

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