The Rachel Hollis Podcast 905 | "Rach, My new boyfriend is a Bad Father-- is that a red flag?" "Why cant I feel any of my success?"
Nov 7, 2025
This discussion tackles complex relationship questions, starting with the challenges of dating someone who has been a bad father. The conversation shifts to evaluating emotional connections and the importance of accountability. Listeners also dive into why some may feel disconnected from their success, with insights on dissociation and therapy. Rachel wraps up by sharing home cleansing rituals, emphasizing the power of intention. It's a thought-provoking exploration of personal growth and emotional health!
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Bad Choices Can Come From Good Intentions
- People can make bad parenting choices from a ‘good place’ like overworking to provide.
- That doesn’t excuse harm, but explains complexity and potential for growth.
Test Reaction Not Just Regret
- If a partner lacked parenting involvement, test whether they change behavior after learning its impact.
- Use their response to that feedback as the primary litmus test for long-term integrity and fit.
Require Clear Commitment Before Kids
- If you plan to have children with a new partner, demand clear commitment to improving parenting skills.
- Consider that asking someone to be a father again is a large, specific request that requires motivation.