

#20: Break Your Habits and Dig Deeper
9 snips Aug 7, 2024
Discover how to break free from unhealthy habits by diving deep into your mind. The hosts shed light on the iceberg model, revealing the hidden patterns that drive your actions. They discuss recognizing emotional triggers in relationships and how structures can shape behaviors. Explore the importance of metacognition and the DSRP framework for deeper awareness. Embrace mindful moments to transform your daily routines and cultivate self-awareness, all while learning to engage more consciously with life.
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Iceberg Model of Habits
- The iceberg model explains habits as events on the surface, patterns underneath, and deeper system structures and mental models below.
- Recognizing these layers helps us understand behavior beyond immediate reactions and see causes.
Danger of Surface-Level Focus
- Staying only at the surface of events leads to cluelessness and poor outcomes.
- Underlying currents of patterns and structures control what happens, often invisible at the event level.
Build In-the-Moment Awareness
- Develop awareness (metacognition) to recognize deeper patterns and structures at play in your habits.
- Practice pausing in the moment to ask why you are doing what you are doing to break reactive cycles.