On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Why Love Is Not Enough & 5 Things to Focus On More in Dating & Relationships

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Jun 28, 2024
Love isn't enough for a successful relationship. Shared values and emotional maturity play crucial roles in building lasting connections. It's essential to recognize behavior patterns and prioritize trust over mere affection. The discussion emphasizes the significance of supporting each other's emotional growth. Navigating trauma and understanding how you treat one another are key for a stable partnership. In the end, a healthy relationship relies more on teamwork and trust than on love alone.
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INSIGHT

Love vs. Being Loved

  • We're trained from a young age to focus on whether someone loves us.
  • However, love isn't enough; actions and how they make us feel matter more.
INSIGHT

Values in Love

  • Love can make us compromise our values, even when someone who truly loves us wouldn't want that.
  • Knowing each other's top values is crucial, and neglecting them signifies love isn't enough.
ADVICE

Patterns of Behavior

  • Trust patterns of behavior over words, as love can blind us to repeated mistakes.
  • Communicate about how you express and experience love to ensure your patterns align.
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