The Mel Robbins Podcast

What Every Dad Should Know: Lessons From Literary Legend James Patterson

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Jun 12, 2025
James Patterson, the bestselling author known for his gripping thrillers, shares heartfelt insights on fatherhood drawn from his book 'Be the Best Dad You Can Be in One Hour.' He discusses the importance of being present and emotionally available, addressing the unspoken pressures many dads face. Patterson reflects on his journey, the transformative power of connection, and wishes he had navigated certain moments differently. This conversation resonates with anyone looking to deepen relationships, offering practical wisdom and personal stories that inspire.
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ANECDOTE

Last Hug on Deathbed

  • James Patterson shared that he only remembers hugging his father on his deathbed.
  • This reflects complicated emotions and distance in their relationship.
INSIGHT

Men Tie Love to Performance

  • Many men feel loved only when they perform or achieve.
  • This mindset is evolving, requiring men to redefine personal worth beyond traditional roles.
ADVICE

Be Present with Your Kids

  • When with your kids, focus fully and be present.
  • Presence matters more than attending every event or recording moments.
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