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Feb 14, 2025 
Poppy Sowerby, a keen observer of modern relationships, joins writers Freya India, known for her insights on love, and Sheehan Quirke of The Cultural Tutor fame. Together, they unravel the complexities of romance in 2025, discussing the impact of dating apps on emotional connections. They explore the tension between convenience and authenticity, challenge stereotypes of male romance discussions, and advocate for reclaiming vulnerability in love. Amidst societal pressures, they inspire hope for a re-enchantment of romance in a digital age.
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Choice Overload
- Dating apps give young people overwhelming choice, unlike finding a partner locally.
- This abundance of options can paralyze decision-making in early relationships.
Romance Condensed to Apps
- Sheehan Quirke's friends, who frequently use dating apps, rarely viewed others romantically outside of the apps.
- Meeting a girl in person was a unique and exciting event for them.
Idealism vs. Reality
- Poppy Sowerby believes dating app optimization melts away during in-person interactions.
- Instinct and immediate attraction still prevail in real-life encounters.