We Can Do Hard Things The Closure Myth: How Do We Really Move On?
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Dec 5, 2024 The hosts dive into the complexities of moving on from heartbreak and the myth of closure. They explore Glennon's concept of 'magical pessimism' and why creative individuals often shy away from seeking closure. The discussion touches on how our environments impact emotional healing and the ongoing influence of past relationships. Themes of grief, self-care, and the challenges of family dynamics add depth, emphasizing acceptance of ambiguity as crucial for personal growth.
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Closure as Acceptance
- Closure is a singular decision made by oneself, not something received from others.
- It's the acceptance of a situation, not the filling of a void.
The Need for Closure
- People with a high need for closure seek clear answers to avoid ambiguity, prioritizing predictability.
- This often leads to self-sabotage, choosing a definitive "no" over uncertainty.
Glennon's Story
- Glennon Doyle shares her experience of struggling to create a narrative after her marriage ended.
- This highlights the discomfort of ambiguity and the human need for a clear story.