Feeling unmotivated? You're not alone! The discussion dives into the complex dance between mental health and motivation, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion. Parenthood brings a transformative shift in priorities and introspection, while intrinsic versus extrinsic motivation is explored. The speakers share personal insights on overcoming low energy and navigating emotional challenges. Plus, there’s a reminder that motivation fluctuates, and it's okay to have off days—better times are ahead!
Recognizing the influence of our environments and relationships is essential as they significantly affect our motivation and emotional well-being.
Understanding the distinction between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation can guide individuals toward more fulfilling and sustainable personal growth.
Deep dives
The Power to Change Reality
Individuals have the intrinsic power to alter their current circumstances if they feel unfulfilled or stuck. Recognizing that where one currently stands is not where they want to be can be a catalyst for change. This insight emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and encourages active steps towards building new habits and reaching out for support. Everyone experiences moments of low motivation, reminding us that these feelings are universal and affect us all, often prompting the need for self-compassion rather than guilt.
Understanding Motivation's Evolution
The concept of motivation has remained relevant throughout time, evolving as personal experiences and external circumstances shift. The hosts reflected on the changing nature of what motivates them, noting that their understanding has deepened as they have aged. They highlighted personal growth and self-care practices, revealing how ongoing struggles with motivation often stem from mental health challenges like anxiety or depression. This evolution underscores the importance of recognizing our mental state as a significant factor affecting motivation levels.
The Role of Environment in Motivation
An individual's surroundings significantly influence their motivation and emotional well-being. The hosts explored the impact of their living situations and relationships on their energy levels and overall drive. For instance, living in a supportive or challenging environment can either uplift or hinder one's motivation. The discussion highlighted how personal circumstances, such as living with family or experiencing loneliness, can provoke fluctuating motivation, stressing the importance of addressing these environmental factors.
Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Motivation
Understanding the difference between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation is crucial for sustained well-being and goal achievement. Intrinsic motivation arises from personal satisfaction and meaningful engagement, while extrinsic motivation depends on external rewards or recognition. The hosts shared personal experiences to illustrate how shifting from a focus on external validation to internal fulfillment can create a more profound sense of purpose. They emphasized that intrinsic motivation often leads to long-term satisfaction, showcasing the importance of self-awareness and nurturing one's internal drives.
Lacking motivation? This time of year got us feeling some type of way… Whether we’re beating ourselves over all the things we didn’t do this year, or brimming with hope for a fresh start that’s right around the corner, you’re not alone in feeling either or BOTH feelings at the same time. In this episode, we explore the complex relationship between mental health and motivation, hitting out limits, and how our our relationship with productivity has shifted over the years.
Whether you're going through a temporary dip or a longer season of feeling unmotivated, remember that it's okay to not be okay, we’re all in this together, and that better days are ahead 🌤️🥹 🫶
We’re sending you all the biggest, warmest, cuddliest hug ~
p.s. we lost our mic's audio after recording so we apologize for the wonky audio quality on this episode!
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