Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast Guilt vs. Shame in Kids - Question & Answer from The Locker Room w/ Jim Ramos EP 945
Dec 17, 2025
Explore the delicate balance between guilt and shame in children, as Jim Ramos discusses whether young kids should feel guilt. Discover the difference between appropriate guilt linked to wrongdoing and shame that stems from exposure. He highlights the importance of teaching children objective right and wrong for a healthy understanding of guilt. Delve into the dual meanings of guilt in faith and how Christ's forgiveness shapes our feelings. Ultimately, should believers revel in forgiveness or grapple with guilt? Tune in for enlightening insights!
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Guilt Can Signal Godly Conviction
- Jim Ramos suggests children's guilt can be a sign of Holy Spirit conviction and good upbringing.
- He contrasts guilt (healthy conscience) with shame (resulting from being caught or shamed by parents).
Conviction Versus Condemnation
- Romans distinguishes conviction from condemnation for believers in Christ.
- Jim Ramos notes Christians should feel conviction but not ongoing condemnation after true repentance.
Train Kids To Recognize Right And Wrong
- Teach children to recognize objective right and wrong rather than manufacturing guilt for them.
- Train kids in moral standards so guilt naturally follows when they break God's code.