The PhD Life Coach

4.15 What to do when you don’t know what to do

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Dec 8, 2025
Feeling stuck in academia? Dive into how the phrase 'I don't know' can trigger decision paralysis. Discover a framework to transform vague uncertainties into actionable steps. Learn to distinguish between what you can find out and what you may never know. Explore the power of choice in decision-making and how to prioritize based on your values. It's a practical guide for anyone tired of indecision, offering clarity and a path forward.
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INSIGHT

How 'I Don't Know' Paralyzes Action

  • Saying "I don't know" is deeply paralyzing and stops decision-making in its tracks.
  • This paralysis fuels uncomfortable emotions that drive avoidance and procrastination.
ANECDOTE

Scrolling To Avoid Discomfort

  • Dr Vikki Wright admits she avoids uncomfortable emotions by scrolling when stuck.
  • That avoidance leaves her still not knowing and also feeling guilty about wasted time.
ADVICE

Find Objective Answers By Mapping Steps

  • When an answer exists, treat it as discoverable and list who or where can provide it.
  • Break the task into steps to move from "I don't know" to "I do know."
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