The Art of Charm

221: AoC Toolbox | Guide to First Dates

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Dec 8, 2013
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INSIGHT

Find Someone Who Fits Your Life

  • High-value dating means finding someone who fits into your existing lifestyle rather than reshaping your life for them.
  • Use courting as a filter to add to your life instead of a reason to change who you are.
ANECDOTE

Boring Dinner-Movie Turned Her Off

  • A woman posted that a traditional dinner-and-movie first date left her bored and uninterested afterward.
  • Her friends suggested riding Disneyland first, but she planned to reject him to avoid leading him on.
ADVICE

Skip Dinner-And-A-Movie Early On

  • Avoid dinner-and-movie on early dates because it creates pressure, passive interaction, and long time commitment.
  • Choose fun, cheap, activity-focused dates to create shared experiences and natural chemistry.
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