Rachel Gilson, the director of theological development for CRU's Northeast region and author of "Born Again This Way," shares her captivating journey of faith and sexuality. She discusses the complexities of reconciling same-sex attraction with Christian beliefs, highlighting transformative moments during her time at Yale. Rachel sheds light on mixed-orientation marriages, emphasizing the importance of self-honesty and maturity in navigating these relationships. Her insights advocate for compassion and open dialogue within the Christian community on sexual ethics.
Rachel Gilson's journey illustrates the complexities of navigating faith and sexuality as a same-sex attracted Christian married to a man.
Her upcoming book, 'Born Again This Way,' delves into her theological reflections and unique experiences growing up non-Christian but now active in ministry.
The podcast emphasizes the importance of fostering open dialogues in church communities to create understanding and support around issues of sexuality.
Deep dives
The Role of Support in Theology
This episode highlights the listener-supported nature of the podcast, emphasizing its community aspect. Contributions help sustain the ongoing work and provide avenues for exclusive content for supporters. The host mentions various speaking events planned across different cities, inviting listeners to engage further and connect in person. This approach underlines the importance of community in theological discussions, suggesting that shared experiences enrich understanding.
Introduction to Rachel Gilson
Rachel Gilson is introduced as a key guest, illustrating her multifaceted identity as a director at Crew and a student pursuing her master's degree in theology. Her unique background—coming from a non-Christian environment and now working within a Christian ministry—provides a compelling perspective on faith and sexuality. As a same-sex attracted Christian married to a man, Rachel's story embodies the complexities and nuances of navigating faith and personal identity. Her upcoming book, 'Born Again This Way,' offers insights into her experiences and theological reflections.
Rachel's Theological Perspective
Gilson describes her theological stance, rooted in a Southern Baptist background while also engaging with progressive views. She believes in biblical authority and complements her convictions with a progressive outlook on social issues. Her approach emphasizes the importance of challenging tribal beliefs and fostering a broader understanding of faith. This perspective encourages open dialogue and critical thinking within the church community.
Navigating Sexuality Beyond Cultural Norms
Rachel reflects on her journey of understanding sexual attraction against the backdrop of a non-Christian upbringing. Unlike many who face shame and ostracism, her experience allowed her to process her same-sex attractions without the weight of significant cultural baggage. This freedom enabled a more authentic exploration of her identity and faith. She draws comparisons with those raised in the church, noting the challenges they often face when reconciling their faith with their sexual identity.
The Complexity of Same-Sex Attraction and Faith
The conversation explores the complexities of navigating faith while experiencing same-sex attraction. Rachel emphasizes the importance of trust in God and understanding his character, even when faced with difficult questions about sexuality. She shares her insights on the need for compassion and deeper discussions within the church regarding same-sex attraction. This dialogue encourages believers to cultivate a supportive environment that allows for honest and open conversations about their experiences and struggles.
Rachel has a fascinating story and a witty pen. She's the director of theological development for the northeast for CRU and is the author of the forthcoming book "Born Again This Way." She's attracted to women, married to a man, and a loves studying and writing about Jesus, the Bible, and Christianity. We talked a lot about her interesting journey to faith and how she's wrestled with her faith and her sexuality.
Rachel Gilson serves on the national theological team for Cru. She regularly speaks to churches and students nationally and internationally, especially on the topic of biblical sexuality. Her writing has appeared in places such as Christianity Today, The Gospel Coalition, and Desiring God, and her first book, Born Again This Way (The Good Book Company) will be out March 1. Rachel holds a Master of Divinity and lives in Boston with her husband and daughter.