The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

EP 192: Is Co-Regulation Just Coddling??

Sep 3, 2024

Is co-regulation merely coddling? This intriguing discussion delves into the critical distinctions between the two, unraveling common misconceptions. It also explores the underlying fears that prompt this question and their relation to trust within parent-child relationships. Understanding these dynamics can foster emotional resilience, especially for children with sensitive nervous systems. Tune in to gain insight into effective parenting strategies and discover valuable resources for navigating challenging behaviors.

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Understanding Co-Regulation vs. Coddling in Parenting

00:00 • 36min

Almost every time I teach, especially if there are folks in the audience not already familiar with my work or the concept of co-regulation, someone asks the very valid question of-

“Isn’t this (co-regulation) just coddling?”

Fair question! There are a lot of underlying assumptions and fears in this question that we will deconstruct in today’s episode.

Spoiler: Co-regulation is NOT coddling!

In this episode, you’ll learn

The difference between co-regulation and coddling
Why asking this question helps us understand some of our fears
What trust has to do with co-regulation

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Read the full transcript at:RobynGobbel.com/coddling

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