Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled Raising Motivated, Self-Confident, Less Stressed Kids in an Age of Anxiety (with Dr. William Stixrud)
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Sep 5, 2023 
Dr. William Stixrud, a clinical neuropsychologist, discusses topics such as encouraging self-confidence, intrinsic motivation, and inner-directedness. They talk about the value of giving kids choices and opportunities to pursue their passions, as well as the challenges and benefits of being a nonanxious presence for children. They also explore the importance of downtime and self-directed play, independent problem-solving skills, and building confidence and resilience in children through positive experiences.
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Control and Mental Health
- Low sense of control is at the root of mental health problems, like anxiety, depression, and substance abuse.
- This lack of control also contributes to unhealthy motivation in children, leading to obsessive drivenness or apathy.
Importance of Play
- Give kids plenty of downtime and opportunities for self-directed play.
- This fosters autonomy, helps them manage feelings, and learn social skills.
Granddaughters' Play
- Stixrud's granddaughters had limited technology and primarily played imaginatively.
- Years later, they still prioritize play, demonstrating its lasting impact on development.