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Raising Motivated, Self-Confident, Less Stressed Kids in an Age of Anxiety (with Dr. William Stixrud)

Sep 5, 2023
Dr. William Stixrud, a clinical neuropsychologist, discusses topics such as encouraging self-confidence, intrinsic motivation, and inner-directedness. They talk about the value of giving kids choices and opportunities to pursue their passions, as well as the challenges and benefits of being a nonanxious presence for children. They also explore the importance of downtime and self-directed play, independent problem-solving skills, and building confidence and resilience in children through positive experiences.
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  • Being a non-anxious presence in parenting creates safety and trust, promoting children's competence and intrinsic motivation.
  • Encouraging autonomy in children fosters self-driven motivation, healthy self-esteem, and a sense of agency.

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The significance of a non-anxious presence in parenting

Being a non-anxious presence in parenting is crucial to create a sense of safety and trust for children. By staying calm and composed, parents can effectively support their children in coping with challenges and making their own decisions. It is important for parents to manage their own anxiety and fears, as children pick up on their parents' emotions. A non-anxious presence helps children develop their own sense of competence, problem-solving skills, and intrinsic motivation. Parental acceptance, respect, and enjoyment of their children also contribute to a healthy parent-child relationship and foster a sense of control and self-confidence in children. By focusing on enjoying and trusting our children, we can help them navigate the challenges and build resilience.

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