Case Study: How Being Playful Helped with My Strong-Willed Son
May 14, 2024
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Guest Mariah discusses prioritizing understanding over obedience in parenting, embracing playful corrections for strong-willed children, and the pitfalls of shame in traditional disciplinary methods. The episode offers practical insights on fostering deeper parent-child connections, shifting to empathy-based discipline, and cultivating trust and respect in children.
Prioritizing playfulness to strengthen parent-child bonds.
Replacing shame with empathy-based discipline for strong-willed children.
Deep dives
Parenting with Playful Correction
Mariah, a parent in the Peace and Parenting community, discusses her approach to correction with her son Atticus. She questions whether polite corrections might evoke negative feelings similar to her own childhood experiences. Drawing from her past of harsh correction methods, she seeks to find a balance between correction and connection to foster a positive dynamic with her strong-willed child.
Spousal Support in Positive Parenting
Mariah reflects on her husband's adjustment to positive parenting strategies. She acknowledges his patience and openness to explore new approaches despite his past experiences. Mariah emphasizes the importance of mutual support and understanding between partners in embracing a new parenting style, steering away from shame-based correction methods, particularly tailored for strong-willed children.
Persistence and Perspective in Positive Parenting
Mariah encourages perseverance for those transitioning to positive parenting methods. She highlights the initial challenges and setbacks she faced, underscoring the non-linear nature of progress. Emphasizing a shift in focus from obedience to relationship building, Mariah advocates for a sustained commitment to fostering trust, empowerment, and assertiveness in children through open communication and mutual respect.
Today, I’m joined by guest Mariah, one of our vibrant Peace of Parenting community members. Mariah shares her journey of discovering a new approach to parenting that prioritizes understanding over obedience. From navigating challenges with her strong-willed son to embracing playful corrections, Mariah offers insights that resonate with every parent striving for deeper connections with their children.
We delve into the layers of traditional disciplinary methods, shedding light on the pitfalls of shame and the power of empathy. This episode is packed with practical insights and actionable strategies that you can immediately apply to nurture stronger bonds with your children.
In this Episode:
How playfulness fosters deeper parent-child connections
Shifting from correction to empathy-based discipline
Challenges with strong-willed children and playful solutions
The importance of avoiding shame in parenting
Prioritizing understanding over blind obedience
Cultivating trust, respect, and resilience in children
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