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Caitlin Moran on the power of words and why masculinity is in crisis

Apr 24, 2024

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Caitlin Moran

Caitlin Moran, a prize-winning columnist and bestselling author, joins the conversation with her witty insights on gender and society. She reveals the joy and power of words in overcoming struggles. Caitlin addresses the crisis of masculinity, shedding light on the emotional suppression men face due to societal expectations. She explores how feminism has unintentionally highlighted men's emotional challenges, advocating for open discussions about vulnerability. With her characteristic humor, Caitlin emphasizes the need for compassion and fresh dialogues around masculinity.

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Intro

00:00 • 2min

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Overcoming Shame and the Power of Cultural Influence

02:19 • 4min

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The Vital Role of Libraries and Literature

06:20 • 9min

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Navigating Anxiety in Family Dynamics

15:35 • 23min

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Understanding Men's Struggles: A Call for Conversation

38:26 • 27min

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Exploring Emotional Complexities

01:05:13 • 17min

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Nurturing Joy Amidst Anxiety

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Anne of Green Gables

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What about Men?

Caitlin Moran

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More Than a Woman

Caitlin Moran

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Sweet Valley High

The Album

Francine Pascal

The Sweet Valley High series, initiated in 1983, consists of 181 books and follows the lives of identical twins Jessica and Elizabeth Wakefield, along with their friends, in the fictional town of Sweet Valley, California. The series spans various genres including soap opera, romance, and fantasy-adventure. The twins, despite their physical similarity, have distinct personalities: Elizabeth is sensible and down-to-earth, while Jessica is outgoing and more concerned with fashion and popularity. The series explores their relationships, high school experiences, and personal growth, and it includes several spin-off series such as Sweet Valley Senior Year and Sweet Valley University.

Men Who Hate Women

Laura Bates

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In this special episode, I’m delighted to be speaking with Caitlin Moran seeing as my daughters and I are huge fans of her writing. In this episode, she reflects on her tough upbringing and speaks about the power and joy she found with words. She also shares her opinions on masculinity and the challenges men face in society. With her characteristic humour and sharp wit, Caitlin discusses the cultural and personal implications of men's roles, offering a fresh perspective on what it means to navigate manhood in today's world.

Key Points Discussed:

The Power of Words: As Caitlin is a very skilled and prolific writer, she shares her love of writing, the power of writing, and how us finding the language to express ourselves can impact the world.

The Language We Use Around Children: Caitlin offers her thoughts on how younger generations are facing challenges, especially after hearing how the adults around them speak about the state of the world.

Masculinity in Crisis: Caitlin explores the crisis of masculinity, noting how societal expectations and traditional roles can lead to emotional suppression among men, resulting in a range of mental health issues.

Impact of Feminism on Men: She discusses the impact of feminism on men, arguing that while feminism has empowered women, it has also inadvertently highlighted the lack of emotional tools available to men, contributing to a generational disconnect.

I really enjoyed this conversation and found myself laughing a lot with Caitlin. I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did!

Resources:

Get Caitlin’s new book, now in paperback: “What About Men?” - https://amzn.eu/d/cSlWgWt

American Institute for Boys and Men - https://aibm.org

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