Ep. 233: Dr. Samir Chopra — How to Find Peace Even When You're Anxious
Jul 24, 2024
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Dr. Samir Chopra, a philosopher and counselor, discusses anxiety from a unique perspective in his new book. He explores whether our current levels of anxiety are truly unprecedented or part of the human condition. Delving into his early losses, he addresses how they shape our understanding of love and vulnerability. Chopra highlights the paradox of progress leading to increased unease and suggests that embracing anxiety can foster peace. He shares insights on the value of being present and the Buddhist view of self, offering a liberating approach to living with anxiety.
Anxiety should be reframed as a natural part of life rather than an obstacle to eliminate, promoting deeper self-acceptance.
The historical misunderstanding of anxiety reflects amplified societal pressures, emphasizing our long-standing relationship with this human experience over time.
Deep dives
Philosophy's Role in Understanding Anxiety
Philosophy provides a framework to understand anxiety beyond simply viewing it as a problem to be fixed. It emphasizes the notion of shifting one's relationship with anxiety, recognizing it as a natural fact of existence rather than an obstacle. This approach reflects the idea that anxiety is intertwined with the human experience and can serve as a catalyst for deeper inquiry and understanding. By reframing anxiety in this way, individuals can begin to accept it as a part of life rather than something they need to eliminate altogether.
Anxiety Through Historical Lenses
The perception that contemporary society faces unprecedented levels of anxiety reflects a historical misunderstanding of human experiences. Anxiety has always been present and expressed in various forms throughout history; however, modern advancements have amplified our ability to articulate and share these feelings. Such awareness does not signify that we are uniquely burdened but instead reveals the cumulative nature of societal pressures over time. This ongoing discourse illustrates humanity's long-standing relationship with anxiety across different eras.
The Relationship Between Anxiety and Inquiry
Anxiety fuels philosophical inquiry, as the discomfort it causes often drives individuals to seek deeper understanding and meaning. The sense of wonder associated with inquiry is tempered by the fear and uncertainty linked to our existential condition. Philosophical exploration allows individuals to confront their anxieties, leading to greater self-awareness and insights about existence. This dual role of anxiety as both a source of discomfort and motivation for understanding highlights its complexity in the human experience.
Embracing Discomfort as a Part of Life
Accepting discomfort as an inherent aspect of life can transform one's experience with anxiety and dissatisfaction. The pursuit of happiness often prompts individuals to view discomfort as a failure, when in fact, navigating discomfort can lead to personal growth and deeper insights. This perspective encourages individuals to engage with their feelings of anxiety without seeking to eliminate them entirely. By rethinking the purpose of life beyond mere happiness, individuals can find value and meaning in their struggles.
My guest this week is philosopher and counselor Dr. Samir Chopra, author of the fascinating new book, Anxiety: A Philosophical Guide (affiliate link).
Topics we discussed included:
The extent to which we are experiencing unique levels of anxiety in human history
Philosophical inquiry that springs from anxiety
The unconscious cognitive work we do to make the world sensible and navigable
My guest’s loss of both parents fairly early in life and the consequences on his psyche
Comparing our experienced misfortunes to the visible misfortunes of others
The fear of not making the best use of our lives
Being in the moment as an antidote to continual anxiety
The Buddhist explanation of why anxiety can persist even when all is well
Freedom from suffering through seeing the persistence of self as an illusion
Managing and reducing anxiety vs. living with it
Viewing anxiety as an ever-present entity in one’s life
Samir Chopra, PhD, is a philosophical counselor and professor emeritus of philosophy at Brooklyn College and the Graduate Center of the City University of New York.
He’s the author and coauthor of many books, including Shyam Benegal, A Legal Theory for Autonomous Artificial Agents, and Eye on Cricket.
His essays have appeared in the Nation, the Los Angeles Review of Books, Aeon, Psyche, and other publications.
Find Samir online at his website where you can learn more about his work and contact him about counseling sessions.
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