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In this episode, you'll learn why children owe parents nothing beyond gratitude for life, how micromanaging your child's space can disconnect them from intrinsic motivation, why control-based parenting breeds entitlement, and how shifting to a devotional approach to motherhood creates a deeper connection.

Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction  

[00:30] The mother-child relationship is the deepest form of intimacy

[01:15] The habit of micromanaging children's spaces

[02:10] How control-based parenting impacts kids

[03:05] Teaching kids compliance vs. true cooperation

[04:00] Understanding the hidden motives behind parenting rules

[05:00] Why children only owe parents gratitude for life

[06:10] The natural flow of giving from parent to child

[07:05] Recognizing the burden of transactional love

[08:00] How unmet childhood needs shape parenting behaviour

[09:15] Letting go of expectations for children’s appreciation

[10:00] Why it’s okay if children never reciprocate gestures

[11:10] The power of giving without expecting anything in return

[12:05] How control-based parenting creates entitlement

[13:00] Teaching kids intrinsic motivation instead of compliance

[14:05] The issue with forcing kids to clean their rooms

[15:00] Encouraging kids to take ownership of their space

[16:10] How parents project their own discomfort onto their kids

[17:00] Shifting from control to true service in parenting

[18:00] Recognizing martyrdom and self-pity in motherhood

[19:10] Prioritizing motherhood over career and personal goals

[20:05] The mindset shift from burden to privilege in parenting

[21:00] The importance of truly listening to children

[22:00] Letting go of the need to control your child’s choices

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