Holding Space for Yourself and Others With Thomas Parkes

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Dec 9, 2024

Thomas Parkes, a therapist and musician, dives into the art of holding space in this conversation. He shares his journey of balancing his careers while creating his album, exploring vulnerability and trust. Parenthood's emotional complexities are discussed, blending fear and hope. Tom highlights the importance of self-compassion and the deep connections individuals have with music as life evolves. Strategies for embracing vulnerability and forming genuine connections are also explored, offering valuable insights for listeners seeking personal growth.

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ADVICE

Holding Space for Others

Holding space starts with self-compassion; create safety and curiosity within yourself.
Then, invite others into that space.

INSIGHT

The Organic Nature of Songwriting

Songs can organically assemble from disparate pieces over time, much like insights in therapy.
Tom Parkes's song "Holding Space" reflects his experience as a therapist.

ANECDOTE

Navigating Uncertainty

Tom Parkes discusses the anticipation and uncertainty of impending fatherhood.
He uses the analogy of sailing to describe navigating the unknown.

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"What does it mean to hold space for someone?" In this episode of The Wise Effort Show, host Dr. Diana Hill sits down with therapist and musician Tom Parkes to explore the concept of holding space for yourself and other people. Tom shares his experiences producing his new album, which reflects on the therapeutic process and personal growth. Through an intimate conversation, they discuss themes of vulnerability, the challenges of becoming a parent, and the evolving significance of personal songs over time. Tom also opens up about the importance of self-compassion. The episode highlights the interplay between holding space in therapy, music, and personal life, offering valuable insights for both therapists and non-therapists alike.

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The Art of Holding Space
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The episode is a heartfelt exploration of the art of presence, weaving together personal narratives with universal themes. It’s a must-listen for those seeking to deepen their understanding of connection, creativity, and compassion.

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Thanks to the team, Craig and Ashley Hiatt, and Benjamin Gould of Bell & Branch for your beautiful music.

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