Made It Out Early Signs & Late Exploration with Iris Walker
Nov 7, 2023
In this episode, Iris Walker shares her struggles with defining her sexuality, the stigmas on the bisexual community, and the challenges of dating in your 30s while still unsure. The podcast explores childhood gender and sexuality, reflections on personal desires, and the journey to self-discovery. The chapter also features a humorous debate on ghosting based on beverage preferences and a toast with oat milk.
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Misogyny Fuels Lesbian Dismissal
- Society often dismisses lesbian relationships due to misogyny and heteronormativity.
- This dismissal causes internalized shame because same-sex female love is wrongly seen as less valid or real.
Barbie Doll Childhood Exploration
- Iris shared a childhood story about playing with a life-size Barbie doll as if on dates, including making out and humping it.
- Her mom caught her but reacted with shock and allowed her to explore, though confused by the scene.
First Grade Secret Kisses
- Iris recalled in first grade sneaking to the bathroom with a girl to kiss, using fake bathroom passes to avoid detection.
- This early experience was a childhood sign of same-sex attraction despite societal stigma.