In this episode, Iris Walker shares her struggles with defining her sexuality, the stigmas on the bisexual community, and the challenges of dating in your 30s while still unsure. The podcast explores childhood gender and sexuality, reflections on personal desires, and the journey to self-discovery. The chapter also features a humorous debate on ghosting based on beverage preferences and a toast with oat milk.
Childhood experiences shape perceptions of sexuality, impacting self-identity and societal norms.
Adult exploration of sexuality involves navigating shame, societal stigmas, and personal self-discovery journey.
Deep dives
Exploring childhood influences on sexuality
The episode delves into the impact of childhood experiences on understanding and embracing one's sexuality. Through personal anecdotes, the podcast highlights how family dynamics, cultural influences, and societal norms shape individuals' perspectives on their sexual identity. The conversation underscores the challenges and self-discovery journey faced in recognizing and accepting one's true self amidst external pressures and internal struggles.
Navigating self-discovery in adulthood
The discussion extends to adult experiences of exploring and coming to terms with one's sexuality later in life. The host candidly shares her journey of discovering her attraction to women and the complexities of dating and self-acceptance. Themes of shame, bravery, and societal expectations are explored as the host reflects on her evolving understanding and pursuit of authenticity.
Challenging biases and embracing individuality
The episode concludes with humorous 'You Haul or Ghost' scenarios, reflecting on personal preferences and deal-breakers in relationships. By examining societal norms, personal boundaries, and self-expression, the podcast emphasizes the importance of embracing individuality, challenging stereotypes, and fostering self-acceptance in romantic interactions and self-exploration.
Welcome to the first episode of Made It Out! We're going back to the beginning and looking at childhood and sexuality. Join Mal and Iris Walker as they dive into the heteronormative expectations put on us as children, the shame we are taught to feel about our sexuality growing up, and how it all impacts our ability to explore. Iris shares her struggles with defining her sexuality later in life, the stigmas put on the bisexual community, and how hard it is to date in your 30s when you're still unsure.
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