Robin Shohet, supervisor and co-author, discusses his controversial views on coaching relationships, the role of supervision in interrupting narratives, and over 40 years of experience in coaching supervision. Topics include spirituality in supervision, transformative conversations, and the importance of self-reflection and growth.
Exploring shadow side fosters deeper understanding and emotional growth for coaches and clients.
Deep dives
Transformation Through Inquiry into the Illusion of Self
Exploring the concept of transformation, Robin delves into the idea of 'Royal I-ness,' questioning the illusion of a fixed self and the different 'I's we construct. Transformation is seen as an inquiry into the multiple narratives we create, aiming to uncover the true self behind the personas we present. By welcoming a sinking of the ego's ship, the focus shifts from rearranging surface stories to embracing deeper self-inquiry.
Embracing Darkness for Personal Growth
Robin emphasizes the importance of exploring one's shadow side for personal and professional growth. Drawing from personal experiences, including a brief psychotic episode, he encourages coaches to delve into their darker places to develop a deeper understanding of fear, allowing them to hold space for clients navigating their own emotional challenges.
Navigating Anger and Controversial Statements
Addressing the fear of being misunderstood, Robin reflects on the bold statements he makes and how they might be perceived. He highlights the importance of creating thought-provoking content, recognizing that challenging perspectives can lead to growth and reflection, even if it sparks anger or disagreement among listeners.
Reflecting on Transformation and Book Recommendation
Yannick and Robin discuss the process of transformation and self-reflection. They touch on the benefits of embracing challenging emotions and perspectives for personal development. Robin recommends his book, 'In Love with Supervision,' as a resource for those interested in exploring his unique perspective on coaching and personal growth.
Join host Yannick Jacob in this conversation with Robin Shohet who is a supervisor, lecturer and co-author of Supervision in the Helping Professions and In Love with Supervision.
In what can be described as a thought-provoking discussion from beginning to end, Robin starts with what he describes to be a "controversial" stance on coaching and the client-coach relationship.
Robin also talks about the interconnectedness of supervisor-coach-client and the narratives that each brings into a conversation. He then says that it is his job, as a supervisor, to interrupt these narratives.
Drawing from over 40 years of working in supervision, he tells stories that show how he works as a coach supervisor whilst also providing his perspective on coaching supervision, supervision as a spiritual path, transformation, and much more.
We hope you enjoy this episode of Coaching Uncaged by Animas.
If you're interested to learn more about how Robin thinks and works, you may want to check out his latest book here: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Supervision-Creating-transformative-conversations-ebook/dp/B086R34TPR
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