Goal Setting in the Life of a Leader: Who Before What — From the Vault
Dec 18, 2023
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Leadership expert and author, Andy Stanley, discusses the importance of goal setting in the life of a leader. He emphasizes the need to determine 'who' before 'what'. Topics include the significance of 'to be' goals, discovering the true meaning of success, setting B goals and defining nine words, and uncovering personal definitions of success.
Determining who you want to be before deciding what you want to do is essential for successful leadership.
Defining personal success by the impact on relationships, character, and legacy, rather than external achievements, leads to fulfillment.
Deep dives
The Importance of Goal Setting
Goal setting is a crucial aspect of leadership. While some people have sophisticated systems and pay for classes to set goals, others may not be as inclined. However, it is universally recognized that goals are important in the pursuit of success. Andy Stanley shares a personal story about his experience with goal setting, highlighting the significance of determining who or what you want to be before determining what you want to do. By focusing on 'being' goals instead of just 'doing' goals, leaders can align their actions with their desired character and values.
Discovering Personal Definition of Success
Andy Stanley emphasizes the need to determine one's personal definition of success. He recounts his own journey of self-discovery and shares an exercise where individuals imagine what they want people to say about them at their funeral. This exercise reveals the true meaning of success and helps individuals understand what truly matters to them in the long run. Rather than solely focusing on external achievements or accomplishments, success is defined by the impact one has on relationships, character, and the legacy they leave behind.
The Power of Personal B Goals
Andy Stanley introduces the concept of 'B Goals' that he developed based on his personal definition of success. These nine words serve as a portable and memorable guide for his actions and decisions. Each word, such as honesty and dependability, represents a core value that Andy is committed to embodying. By constantly asking 'why' these values are important, Andy deepens his understanding of the impact his actions have on relationships and his own character. These B Goals provide a clear framework for making choices and avoiding behaviors that are in conflict with his desired identity.
Goal setting in the life of a leader is imperative for successful leadership; however, it’s always a mistake to decide whatyou are going to do before you determine who you want to be. Learn more in this episode from 2013.
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