Spiritual Intimacy Do's and Don'ts | Ep. 658

Spiritual intimacy is something couples want, but don’t really know how to get there. We can tend to believe a common myth that it should come naturally without any effort, plus it can seem awkward to pray together or pursue spiritual growth. So how can spiritual intimacy be a realistic part of marriage? 

Today we’re talking about tangible ways to grow in spiritual intimacy with your spouse - and what NOT to do. 

We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. 

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Episode highlights include: 

• Why spirituality matters in marriage

• Common mistakes couples make with spiritual intimacy 

• Can the wife initiate the conversation about spiritual intimacy, or does the husband need to do that as a spiritual leader? 

• Practical steps to growing together spiritually 

• Tips to grow your marriage to become a light and example 

 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

Couples Conversation Guide: 

Main takeaway: The spiritual domain is integral to our health and wellbeing. Sharing it with your spouse is an essential part of intimacy in marriage.

 

Questions to Discuss: 

1. What practices / spiritual disciplines have been most impactful for your personal spiritual growth? 

2. What is one spiritual practice you would like to share with your spouse? 

 

QUOTES 

• “If you’re not able to share about spirituality with your spouse, it diminishes your ability to be intimate and know one another.” - Lindsay Few 

• “We wish we could have an awesome marriage without trying. But it does take effort.” - Lindsay Few 

• “When you have an expectation, you’ve got to share it with your spouse. Then they can let you know whether it’s realistic or not.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling 

• “Most guys feel inadequate to be a spiritual leader. But God will equip you: It’s not rocket science, it’s just being intentional.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling 

• “Most wives just want to see an intentional effort. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling

• “Any time in the Word is better than none.” - Lindsay Few 

 

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