We discuss how paying attention to the books, movies, or TV shows someone loves can provide profound insights into their character and inner life. Our happiness hack shares surprising research that shows we're actually terrible at choosing our own most flattering photos; strangers select better images of us than we do ourselves. Plus we talk to Rich Benjamin about his compelling new memoir, Talk to Me, in which he explores the history and secrets that have haunted his family.

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Talk to Me by Richard Benjamin (Amazon, Bookshop)
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Elizabeth is reading: War and Peace and nothing else these days! (Amazon, Bookshop)
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