A Pastor and a Philosopher Walk into a Bar Gender, Faith, and Privilege after Transitioning: Paula Stone Williams
Jun 29, 2025
Paula Stone Williams, a Reverend and author, shares her compelling journey of transitioning from a successful evangelical leader to embracing her true identity as a transgender woman. She discusses the staggering loss of privilege and professional ties, revealing the stark realities of male privilege versus her new experiences. Surprisingly, a deeper spirituality emerged from her rejection, evolving into a faith rich in intuition and mystery. Paula's insights challenge societal narratives on gender identity, advocating for authentic connections and open dialogue.
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Paula's Loss After Transition
- Paula Stone Williams shared her story of losing everything after coming out as transgender.
- She was a successful male leader but lost jobs, pension, and income after transitioning.
Nuances in Gender Dysphoria Trends
- The rise in transgender identification mostly involves those assigned female at birth during teenage years.
- Many have comorbidities like sexual abuse trauma or body dysmorphia, urging caution in early medical transition.
Wait Until 19 For Medical Transition
- Paula advises waiting until age 19 for medical transition except for a small, consistent group from early childhood.
- This approach reduces regret as many youths later realize they are not transgender.
