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7: Dress Rehearsals | When We All Get to Heaven

Nov 19, 2025
Kevin Fong, a close friend of Scott Galateria, shares heartfelt memories of their deep bond and the caregiving experiences within the MCC community amid the AIDS crisis. Brickwood Galateria, Scott's brother, discusses the life-changing impact of loss on family and how Scott's legacy spurred his advocacy for civil unions in Hawaii. Together, they reflect on the intoxicating blend of love, community support, and heartache during a turbulent time, illustrating the intertwining of personal grief with collective resilience and activism.
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ANECDOTE

Church Romance That Became Family

  • Scott and Bruce met and fell in love through MCC San Francisco, becoming a beloved church couple remembered for their vivid personalities and devotion.
  • Their relationship moved quickly from church brunches to shared travels and deep caregiving as AIDS entered their lives.
INSIGHT

Dress Rehearsals As Shared Future-Viewing

  • MCC members called recurring caregiving moments 'dress rehearsals' because witnessing others' illness made everyone imagine their possible future.
  • Those rehearsals created collective questions about treatment, family involvement, and who would provide care when it was their turn.
ANECDOTE

Church Visits, Communion, And Candlelit Care

  • Reverend Jim announced Bruce's hospitalization and MCC members visited, sang carols, and brought communion, showing how church roles mixed with caregiving.
  • Christina described a candlelit Christmas Eve in a hospital room where she reaffirmed love and commitment despite illness.
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