#61: Why Sexual Freedom Isn't Immorality — It's Integrity

Most people say they support sexual freedom. But when a woman—or man—actually lives it… they turn on them. Judgment. Outrage. Moral panic.

So here's the real question: "Can you be sexually free and morally good?" And if you can, why does it trigger so much shame in others?

In this episode, I trace the ancient roots of sexual repression—from the kings and empires that hoarded mating opportunities, to the purity codes that disguised control as virtue. We'll explore how sexual shame became moralized, why it still lingers even in our "modern" world, and what it means to live with integrity instead of fear.

You'll also learn how honesty, consent, and autonomy aren't loopholes in morality—they're the very definition of it. And how the outrage against sexual freedom says more about the critic's inner shame than about virtue itself.

This isn't a defense of indulgence. It's a call to moral clarity. Because true integrity isn't restraint for its own sake—it's honesty, compassion, and respect for freedom.

Listen now!

Show highlights include:

• What traditional moral frameworks get wrong about restraint and self denial. (1:35)
• Deep-seated reason most people still consider sex a "taboo" topic. (2:43)
• What actually happens when you repress your sexual desire. (6:12)
• "Moral residue" that clings to even the most progressive minds, and how to rinse it away. (6:31)
• Surprising way "food porn" debunks the classic argument for sexual morality. (9:47)
• The tenacity of sexual shame: Why it persists in society generation after generation. (15:10)
• "Impulse prison" and how to set yourself free from the urges that would keep you handcuffed. (16:32)
• How moral clarity affects sexual freedom. (18:03)
• Surprising way some female empowerment advocates become profoundly sexist. (19:52)
• Moral argument for authenticity in sex. And how it applies to all your important relationships. (22:46)
• Sneaky way pride fuels moral outrage. (29:58)

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