

Help Them Understand This Distinction
Jan 25, 2024
Explore the vital lesson of differentiating between urges and actions in children's emotional development. Learn how to guide kids in recognizing that while feelings like anger or frustration are normal, acting on them can lead to harm. Discover practical strategies for teaching emotional regulation and accountability, equipping children with tools to navigate their inner world responsibly. This insightful discussion offers invaluable advice for parents striving to foster healthy emotional responses in their children.
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Separate Urge from Action
- Teach kids to separate urges from actions.
- Help them understand that having an urge is okay, but acting on it might not be.
Normalizing Feelings
- Kids (and adults) experience emotions, stress, and intrusive thoughts.
- These feelings are normal, but how we react to them defines good behavior.
Empowering Kids
- Instead of shaming a child for their feelings, empower them to control their actions.
- Focus on teaching regulation, redirection, and responsibility for their behavior.