KQED's Forum Molly Jong-Fast on 'How to Lose Your Mother'
Jun 23, 2025
Molly Jong-Fast, author of 'How to Lose Your Mother: A Daughter's Memoir' and Vanity Fair correspondent, opens up about her complex relationship with her iconic mother, Erica Jong. She dives into the emotional turmoil of caregiving amid her mother's dementia, exploring themes of love, regret, and family dynamics. Molly reflects on the struggles of growing up with a famous parent, challenges of addiction, and the burden of legacy. Through heartfelt storytelling, she reveals the intricacies of navigating conflicting emotions and the significance of connection in family life.
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Fame's Impact on Identity
- Fame can profoundly warp a person's identity like a disease alters cells.
- Erica Jong struggled with the aftermath of early, intense fame from just one big hit book.
The Trouble with Early Fame
- Early fame, especially for one major success, intensifies challenges for individuals.
- The inability to replicate that success often haunts those who become famous young.
Complex Love for Mother
- Despite pain and neglect, Molly feels deeply connected and grateful toward her mother.
- The legacy and qualities inherited from her mother shape her own identity.
