We Can Do Hard Things 21. On Cussing, “Cattiness” & What Feminism Means to G
Aug 26, 2021
Delve into the perplexing world of female friendships and the societal conditioning that labels women as ‘catty.’ Discover how the language we use, especially in cursing, reflects deep-rooted misogyny and gender dynamics. Hear personal insights on feminism and the baffling exclusion within movements that aim to uplift all women. Plus, Glennon shares her surprising love for parenting teenagers, celebrating the unique joys and challenges during these pivotal years. It's a candid exploration of identity, empathy, and the ongoing fight for equality.
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Cattiness and Competition Among Women
- Societal conditioning makes women competitive and "catty" due to limited opportunities.
- This scarcity fosters competition, while indirect communication styles lead to perceived cattiness.
Gendered Conflict Resolution
- Glennon Doyle, as a teacher, observed how boys were encouraged to directly address conflict, while girls were told to be "nice."
- This disparity in conflict resolution training contributes to indirect communication among women.
Gendered Insults and Power Dynamics
- Gendered insults reveal societal biases by associating female genitalia with weakness and male genitalia with strength.
- Even insults directed at men often denigrate women, highlighting the pervasiveness of misogyny in language.
