The podcast explores the concepts of desire and aversion in Stoicism, and offers advice on redirecting aversion towards things within our control. It also discusses the Stoic approach to desires and finding contentment in not obtaining what one wants. Additionally, the importance of being at peace with whatever comes or doesnt come, while striving for what we want in our lives, is emphasized. Stoicism focuses on context and balance, with no absolute right or wrong, only what is appropriate or inappropriate depending on the situation and person.
Placing aversion only towards things within our control can help avoid unhappiness.
Stoicism emphasizes finding balance between pursuing desires and accepting potential outcomes.
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Finding Balance in Desires and Aversions
Epictetus, in his discourse, suggests that by placing our aversion only towards things contrary to the natural use of our faculties, which are within our control, we can avoid becoming miserable. For instance, being averse to sickness, death, or poverty will lead to unhappiness. Instead, it is advised to redirect aversion from things beyond our control and focus on appropriate actions of pursuit and avoidance. This entails not becoming overly attached to desires and finding contentment even when we don't possess what we want.
Striving for What We Desire While Embracing Reality
The Stoic philosophy encourages individuals to strive for what they desire but to be at peace with the potential outcomes. It is not about being indifferent or passive but rather finding balance between pursuing our goals and accepting the reality if we fail to attain them. Stoicism emphasizes the importance of context, balance, and avoiding becoming vicious in the pursuit of our desires or aversions. It is not about denying our desires but rather approaching them with equanimity and avoiding harmful actions in the process.