It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People Times of High Risk: The Most Dangerous Times with HCPs
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Dec 29, 2022 This installment delves into the unpredictable nature of high conflict personalities and their deep-seated fears. Discover how significant life changes—like divorce or job loss—can spark explosive reactions. The hosts share alarming real-life examples, including a tragic hotel shooting and condo board confrontations. They emphasize the importance of planning and careful timing when breaking bad news. With practical tips on managing workplace tensions and predicting potential escalations, this discussion is a must-listen for navigating high-risk situations.
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Unconscious Triggers Drive Extreme Reactions
- High conflict people react strongly to relationship threats because of unconscious fears like abandonment or humiliation.
- These reactions stem from right-brain, emotion-driven responses that bypass deliberate thinking.
Condo Board Shooting After Eviction Fight
- A condominium resident who faced eviction later returned and killed five board members and spouses after repeated conflicts.
- Bill uses this tragedy to show eviction and community actions can escalate to lethal violence with some high-conflict people.
Plan Safety For Evictions And Notices
- When evicting or legally removing someone with high-conflict patterns, plan safety measures like security and avoid direct contact.
- Do not answer unexpected knocks if you are on a board handling their eviction.