The Daily Stoic

This Is The Only Place To Look For Approval | Ask Daily Stoic

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Aug 14, 2025
The conversation dives into our innate desire for external validation and how this pursuit often leads to futility. Stoic principles are highlighted, particularly in leadership and personal life, showcasing the importance of self-reliance. A personal anecdote reveals the need for self-care and initial discussions around nutrition emphasize the importance of proper diets for overall health. The balance between embracing change and maintaining tradition is explored, alongside the idea of focusing on personal growth over seeking approval from others.
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INSIGHT

Approval From Others Is Meaningless

  • Seeking approval from people you don't respect is irrational and compromises integrity.
  • Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus advise using your own inner scorecard instead of public praise.
ANECDOTE

Marcus Aurelius Learned To Ignore Crowds

  • Marcus Aurelius experienced both cheers and jeers as an emperor and learned to ignore them.
  • He decided his own integrity and inner witness mattered more than public reaction.
ANECDOTE

Host Context For Q&A Episode

  • Ryan recounts flying, giving a talk, and returning home late before recording the episode.
  • He explains Thursday episodes are Q&A sessions, setting context for the following answers.
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