The Guy In The Locker Room: HMA Fantasy Friday Example
Jan 9, 2025
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In this engaging discussion, Jordan Castille, a Board Certified Christian Counselor and Certified Sex Addiction Specialist, opens up about a locker room fantasy while illustrating the Fantasy Friday coaching process. He shares personal reflections on body image, vulnerability, and the impact of bullying on self-worth. The conversation shifts to the healing power of companionship and emotional connections, highlighting the importance of self-care in addiction recovery. It's a candid exploration of masculinity, spirituality, and the journey toward healing.
The podcast emphasizes the value of community and connection in overcoming pornography addiction, especially through events like the Porn Free Man conference.
During a coaching session, the exploration of sexual fantasies reveals deeper emotional needs for affirmation and self-acceptance, illustrating the importance of vulnerability in healing.
Deep dives
Invitation to a Transformative Conference
The podcast promotes the Porn Free Man online conference scheduled for January 10th and 11th, asserting that participating in this event can offer significant insights and benefits, surpassing those of traditional counseling. Attendees will engage with experienced speakers, including Adam Young and Jenna Remersma, in a supportive environment aimed at promoting healing and transformation. The event is presented as a valuable opportunity for individuals struggling with pornography addiction, framing it as a chance to change not only one's brain but also to improve relationships. This conference emphasizes community and connection in the recovery process, making it an appealing choice for those seeking help.
Exploring Sexual Fantasies for Healing
The episode showcases a coaching session in which Jordan Castile, a certified counselor, shares and processes his sexual fantasy related to same-sex attraction, highlighting the importance of vulnerability in healing. As the discussion unfolds, the coach guides Jordan to connect deeply with his feelings, focusing on the underlying need for affirmation and acceptance. The fantasy unfolds in a gym locker room setting, where the interaction symbolizes deeper emotional desires, including the need for connection and validation. This therapeutic exploration illustrates how processing fantasies in a supportive environment can reveal emotional truths and promote self-understanding.
Integrating Inner Healing and Community Support
Throughout the session, the importance of integrating emotional healing with spirituality is emphasized as Jordan invites Jesus into his fantasy, leading to crucial revelations and self-acceptance. The experience helps him address past wounds associated with bullying and feelings of being unseen, allowing for a transformative moment of inner dialogue with his younger self. The conversation highlights how communal support, as demonstrated through the audience's engagement, can reinforce the healing process, validating personal struggles. By framing self-care as nurturing one's inner child, the session encourages practical strategies for emotional well-being following intense experiences, emphasizing the crucial role of community in recovery.
In this episode, Drew Boa helps Jordan Castille process a sexual fantasy about a guy in a locker room. This is a demonstration of Fantasy Friday, one of the weekly HMA Coaching Calls. Learn more and join HMA this week at joinHMA.com.
Drew Boa is the founder of Husband Material. He is a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional, Inner Child Recovery Specialist, Brainspotting Practitioner, and Certified Husband Material Coach.
Jordan Castille is a Board Certified Christian Counselor, Certified Clinical Sex Addiction Specialist, APSATS CPC (Certified Partner Coach) Candidate, and Certified Husband Material Coach. Learn more at castillecoaching.com
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