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Unfollowing Mum

EP2 Gratitude, scapegoating & accountability.

Feb 1, 2023
This podcast explores gratitude towards parents, the concept of scapegoating in family dynamics, and the resistance to accountability. It also discusses generational differences in understanding gratitude and the validity of different perspectives in sibling dynamics.
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Quick takeaways

  • Children do not owe gratitude to their parents for meeting basic needs; emotional closeness and love are also important.
  • Scapegoating in toxic families shifts blame from the parent onto one child, isolating them and disregarding the parent's responsibility.

Deep dives

Importance of Creating a Safe Space for Children

Parents have a responsibility to create a safe and stable environment for their children. It is not the child's duty to owe gratitude to their parents for meeting basic needs such as food and shelter. Children also require emotional closeness and love, and holding oneself accountable as a parent is crucial in fostering healthy relationships.

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