The Slowdown: Poetry & Reflection Daily 1420: Losing the Band by Ashley D. Escobar
Dec 25, 2025
This installment dives into the bittersweet nature of holiday traditions and the loved ones we can't be with. Maggie shares heartfelt reflections on absence during Christmas and introduces Ashley D. Escobar's poignant poem, which captures themes of memory and longing. The discussion highlights poetry's ability to sharpen our attention and evoke deep emotions, reminding us of the connections we cherish. Tune in for a blend of nostalgia, intimacy, and a celebration of the art of verse.
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Holidays Magnify Absence
- Traditions gather certain people together and make other relationships ache with absence.
- Maggie Smith observes that holidays sharpen the awareness of who is missing from our rituals.
Traditions Make Losses Stand Out
- Absence is felt more acutely on holidays because traditions are constants amid changing variables.
- Maggie Smith says that the stability of rituals makes losses and distance stand out more.
Connect With Distant Loved Ones
- Reach out to absent loved ones by calling, texting, or sharing photos on holidays.
- Maggie Smith suggests using FaceTime and passing the phone so everyone can see each other's faces.