New Mindset, Who Dis? 712 - Do. Not. Chase. Them.
Jun 26, 2025
The podcast dives into the concept of chasing in dating, emphasizing the difference between genuine interest and desperation. It examines 'soulful chasing,' where one partner is emotionally invested while the other isn't, leading to confusion and burnout. The discussion highlights the importance of emotional reciprocity in relationships, urging listeners to value their worth and seek authentic connections. Ultimately, it encourages a healthier mindset for navigating love and emotional engagements.
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Chasing Defined as Emotional Imbalance
- Chasing in dating is not about who initiates or how eager someone is.
- It’s about ignoring emotional imbalance in the relationship.
Soulful Chasing and Emotional Unavailability
- Soulful chasing happens when one partner offers emotional depth, the other only goes through the motions.
- The partner appears engaged but is not truly emotionally available.
Avoid Carrying Emotional Weight Alone
- Notice who carries the emotional weight in your relationship.
- Avoid being the only one creating trust, accountability, and emotional safety.