Saturn Returns with Caggie

8.7 Cheers to Child-Free and Sober Living with Ruby Warrington

Oct 30, 2023

In this podcast, Caggie interviews Ruby Warrington, a best-selling author who shares her journey through sobriety and choosing to be child-free. They discuss societal pressures, feminism, and how upbringing influences perspectives. Ruby's books 'Sober Curious' and 'Women Without Kids' explore these topics in depth. They also touch on mysticism and the decline of motherhood, discussing economic factors and the historical persecution of women without children.

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Ruby Warrington

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Quick takeaways

The decision to have or not have children is influenced by personal, societal, and environmental factors.

Open and inclusive conversations about motherhood are essential for self-discovery and support.

Balancing professional ambitions and desires for motherhood requires conscious decision-making and creating supportive environments.

Deep dives

The struggle of society's expectation for women to become mothers

The podcast episode explores the personal journey and societal pressure around the decision to have or not have children. The speaker emphasizes feeling like the 'odd one out' and the growing realization that many women are choosing not to have kids. The discussion centers around the global shift in the birthrate, various factors influencing the decision, and the challenges faced by women who deviate from the traditional path of motherhood.

Introduction

2min

Sensei: Finding Inner Peace and Managing Stress

3min

Choosing a Different Path: Exploring Motherhood and Opting Out

2min

Exploring Mysticism and Sobriety

19min

Choosing Not to Have Children

14min

Saturn Returns Course and Stress Relief with Sensate

5min

The Decline of Motherhood: Factors contributing to the decreasing number of people choosing to have children

19min

In today's episode, I have the privilege of sitting down with the incredible Ruby Warrington, a best-selling author whose journey is nothing short of inspiring. Ruby's books, 'Sober Curious' and her latest release 'Women Without Kids,' delve deep into the profound decisions that we often grapple with in our lives, particularly when it comes to the intricate path of motherhood.

In this heartfelt conversation, Ruby generously shares her personal odyssey, taking us on a transformative journey that encompasses two of her most significant life questions. We explore her decision to embrace sobriety and her journey into mysticism, a path that led her to critically examine the role of children in her own life.

Ruby opens up about those pivotal moments when she came to the realisation that her relationship with alcohol no longer served her spiritual growth. She candidly describes the shift from seeking solace in it to acknowledging that it conflicted with her true self, which is something I deeply relate to.

Our discussion delves deep into Ruby's journey of self-discovery, where she courageously confronts her decision to remain child-free. She reflects on her upbringing and the complex dynamics within her family environment, shedding light on how they influenced her perspective.

As we journey through her twenties, Ruby shares her thought-provoking experiences, marked by internalising societal pressures to become a mother. We ponder the rise of feminism in a predominantly masculine world and the influence it may have had on our own perceptions of motherhood and femininity. Questions arise: Can we maintain autonomy and pursue a career while being devoted mothers? Are we enough if we choose not to have children? Should we attempt to make ourselves want children to fit societal norms?

Ruby takes us through her emotional yet liberating quest to answer these profound questions, ultimately leading her to write 'Women Without Kids.' This remarkable book provides much-needed balance and insight into the multifaceted aspects of this pivotal life choice.

Throughout our conversation, Ruby offers sage advice to those wrestling with the complex and deeply personal decision of motherhood. She emphasises the importance of embracing a more balanced perspective and underscores that there is no one-size-fits-all answer. This episode is a testament to Ruby's journey and her unwavering commitment to empowering women to make choices that authentically align with their true selves.

You can find Ruby on Instagram or at her website.

Books: https://www.rubywarrington.com/books/

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