Pillow Talks E236: Sex with Other People…Around: Our Holiday Do’s and Don’ts
Nov 27, 2025
The holiday season brings joy and, awkwardly, the challenge of sneaky intimacy. The hosts share hilarious and relatable tips for having sex when guests are around, including stealth-mode strategies and personal experiences. They discuss the etiquette of ‘guest sex’ and common pitfalls like thin walls and noisy beds. Fun listener stories add to the humor, along with great advice on creative solutions and privacy during family visits. It’s a lighthearted survival guide for maintaining connection amidst holiday chaos!
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Horniness ≠ Opportunity
- People report feeling hornier during the holidays, but being horny doesn't equal having sex.
- Increased time together raises opportunity but family presence and stress often prevent actual sex.
Treat Guests Like Roommates
- Do treat having sex at someone else's house like living with roommates: respect shared spaces and privacy.
- Do keep doors closed and ensure a private room before getting intimate.
Use Sound Masking
- Use sound-masking to avoid being heard: bring a white noise machine or play music during sex.
- Turn on the TV, run water in the bathroom, or choose the en suite to muffle noise.