Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy 462: HELP! I'm a Burnt Out Sexual Pursuer
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Oct 19, 2024 This discussion dives into the complexities of sexual burnout, particularly focusing on a frustrated sexual pursuer in a sexless marriage. It tackles the challenges posed by menopause and family dynamics, highlighting the importance of empathy and communication. Listeners learn how to navigate intimacy issues during life changes and the value of open dialogue to foster connection. The hosts emphasize recognizing personal needs, adjusting relational expectations, and the critical role of professional support in overcoming emotional exhaustion and building understanding.
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Burnt-Out Pursuer's Strategy
- A burnt-out pursuer stopped initiating intimacy to avoid rejection and pressured sex.
- He realized, however, that his testosterone drives his need for sex, unlike his menopausal partner.
Shift the Mission
- Acknowledge your partner's frustration from unmet needs.
- Withdrawers should shift the mission to consider their partner's struggles.
Finding the Right Therapist
- Seek therapy from an EFT-trained sex therapist if you're struggling with intimacy issues in your relationship.
- Many sex therapists lack training in the sexual cycle, which is crucial for understanding these dynamics.