The Dr. Psych Mom Show
with clinical psychologist
Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten You Are An Unreliable Narrator And So Is Everyone Else... Or, How To Become 100x Wiser In One Minute
Dec 26, 2025
Dive into the mind-bending concept of everyone being an unreliable narrator in their own stories! Discover how biases twist perceptions in relationships, creating one-sided tales. Learn why older, seasoned individuals often grasp this deeper truth while younger ones may struggle. Get insights on how cherry-picked narratives flourish online, fostering echo chambers that stifle growth. Plus, uncover the transformative power of seeing both partners' perspectives in therapy! It’s a compelling exploration of truth, perception, and relationship dynamics!
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Everyone Crafts Their Own Version Of Events
- People naturally tell only their side of the story and unconsciously cherry-pick evidence to support their worldview.
- Recognizing everyone is an unreliable narrator instantly increases your understanding of relationships and conflicts.
Seeing The Spouse Changed Her View
- Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten describes how meeting a client's spouse often transformed her view of the original client.
- She says one session with the spouse sometimes taught her more than many sessions with the first client.
Always Consider The Other Perspective
- When someone tells a relationship or work story, imagine the other person's version and assume you'll see flaws in the first narrator.
- Before judging, ask what context or missing details might change how the story reads.