On Purpose with Jay Shetty 3 Scientific Reasons Why We Lose The Spark and 3 Ways To Get It Back
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Jan 27, 2023 Explore the reasons why relationships often lose their initial spark, emphasizing the shift from chemistry to character. Discover how competition can hinder emotional connection and the allure of 'bad boys' might not lead to lasting happiness. Learn strategies to rekindle passion, focusing on mutual support and personal growth. The podcast also highlights the benefits of premarital counseling as a proactive step for deeper connections and lasting love.
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Chemistry vs. Character
- We crave chemistry in relationships, but it's not sustainable long-term.
- Character is more important for lasting relationships, especially during stress.
Biology of Bad Boys/Girls
- We are often attracted to "bad boys/girls" due to biology and their self-promotion.
- Recognize this pattern to avoid getting into or staying in the wrong relationship.
Love at First Sight vs. True Love
- Love at first sight is often just initial attraction based on physicality, not true love.
- As we mature, our brains prioritize reasoning and self-control, reducing impulsive attraction.
