3 Scientific Reasons Why We Lose The Spark and 3 Ways To Get It Back
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Jan 27, 2023
Explore the reasons why relationships often lose their initial spark, emphasizing the shift from chemistry to character. Discover how competition can hinder emotional connection and the allure of 'bad boys' might not lead to lasting happiness. Learn strategies to rekindle passion, focusing on mutual support and personal growth. The podcast also highlights the benefits of premarital counseling as a proactive step for deeper connections and lasting love.
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Chemistry vs. Character
We crave chemistry in relationships, but it's not sustainable long-term.
Character is more important for lasting relationships, especially during stress.
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Biology of Bad Boys/Girls
We are often attracted to "bad boys/girls" due to biology and their self-promotion.
Recognize this pattern to avoid getting into or staying in the wrong relationship.
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Love at First Sight vs. True Love
Love at first sight is often just initial attraction based on physicality, not true love.
As we mature, our brains prioritize reasoning and self-control, reducing impulsive attraction.
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Today, I am going to share with you the reason that ultimately leads to losing that spark that was initially there at the start of the relationship. Although chemistry is important, for many, especially for relationships that didn’t last, it is not sustainable. And it does not provide a strong enough bond to keep the relationship going. Let’s find out what these scientific reasons are and the tips to turn things around to help improve and sustain the partnership you have right now.
Key Takeaways:
00:00:00 Intro
00:03:12 Why do we lose the spark in our relationship?
00:04:27 We are addicted to having chemistry
00:07:40 Why the ‘bad boys’ seem more attractive
00:11:09 Reason #1: Transition from chemistry to character
00:15:53 Reason #2: From being a collaboration to a competition
00:23:10 Reason #3: Your partner will push you and challenge you
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