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2747: The New Rules for Modern Manhood w/ Larry Hagner

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Dec 11, 2025
Larry Hagner, founder of The Dad Edge podcast and a dedicated advocate for improving fatherhood, delves into the modern challenges men face. He discusses 'The Drift'—a phenomenon where men feel disconnected in work and relationships. Emphasizing communication, he outlines men's and women's core needs in marriage and introduces the 'Five Ps of Attraction.' Larry also highlights the importance of strong male circles for support and practical skills to enhance relationships, urging men to prioritize marriage alongside parenting for healthier families.
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INSIGHT

The Drift Explained

  • The “drift” is a slow decline men experience after marriage and kids when life becomes unfulfilling and stagnant.
  • Larry Hagner says most men buy into defeatist social messages and slowly lose purpose and connection.
ADVICE

Draw A Line And Learn Skills

  • Draw a line in the sand and decide you will not live in the drift any longer.
  • Learn concrete skills to connect with your wife and kids and practice emotional resilience (patience).
INSIGHT

Marriage Is The Keystone

  • Marriage is the hub: fixing your marriage improves work, parenting, health, and leadership.
  • Larry asserts communication failures are the single biggest roadblock men bring to him.
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