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"Casual Sex Is Almost Always Dangerous For Women!" This Is What Casual Sex Is Really Doing To Women - Louise Perry

Jun 20, 2024

In this engaging discussion, Louise Perry, a British journalist and author of 'The Case Against The Sexual Revolution,' delves into the repercussions of casual sex on women. She argues that such encounters often carry unequal emotional risks and stress the importance of commitment. Louise explores the psychological phenomenon of 'the ick,' highlights gender differences in sexuality, and critiques the role of dating apps in fostering loneliness. The conversation raises vital questions about modern relationships and the societal norms shaping them.

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Louise Perry

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Casual sex can be emotionally risky for women due to stronger post-sex bonds than men.

Societal focus on male preferences for casual sex may create unequal relationship dynamics.

Delaying sex until engagement can foster commitment and stability in relationships.

Open communication about sexual differences is crucial for healthy partnerships.

Challenges in modern dating require understanding of gender dynamics and relationship norms.

Deep dives

The Risks and Impact of Casual Sex on Women

Casual sex poses higher risks for women due to emotional bonding from sex being more profound for them than men, leading to potential misery. The societal focus on male preferences for casual sex can harm both men and women differently.

The Impact of Education and Class on Marriage and Child Well-being

03:13

Cross-cultural Perspectives: Gender Responses to Propositions

00:54

Peak Ages and Testosterone in Sexual Violence

01:17

The Necessity of Social Structure and Conventions

01:01

Intro

2min

The Journey of Family and Feminism

30min

Understanding 'The Ick' and Its Impact on Attraction

2min

Instincts, Differences, and Gender Roles

15min

The Impact of Social Media on Modern Dating

2min

The Impacts of Casual Sex and Relationship Structures

29min

Global Birth Rate Crisis

5min

The Impact of Pornography on Sexual Culture

16min

The Dynamics of Attraction

5min

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Navigating the Complexities of Societal Expectations

3min

Has feminism failed women? Louise Perry uncovers the truth about sexual liberation.

Louise Perry is a British journalist and host of the ‘Maiden Mother Matriarch’ podcast. She is also press officer for the charity, ‘We Can’t Consent To This’ and author of the book, ‘The Case Against The Sexual Revolution: A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century’.

In this conversation, Louise and Steven discuss topics such as, the dangers of casual sex for women, why you should trust your ‘icks’, how dating apps are making men lonely, and the truth about sex on a first date.

You can purchase Louise’s book, ‘The Case Against The Sexual Revolution: A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century’, here: https://amzn.to/3z60wqy

(0:00) Intro

(01:42) What are you trying to achieve??

(03:45) What does society disagree with you on?

(04:21) The trade-offs of the contraceptive pill

(05:30) How has sexual culture changed?

(06:59) Working in a rape crisis centre

(09:49) How to channel men's aggression in the right direction

(11:59) The physical differences between men and women

(13:28) How men and women differ in their view on sexuality

(14:58) Why men are more likely to have casual sex

(17:59) How does a culture of casual sex impact women

(23:31) Repercussions of casual sex in society

(28:54) The lack of communication and education is hurting both genders

(31:18) Why women have icks towards men

(33:30) Women should listen to their icks

(38:10) Women's 6th sense

(41:02) There are some jobs women shouldn't do due to biology

(46:44) Heroic masculinity

(48:22) Social media affecting our view on relationships & dating

(50:54) Wait until engagement to have sex

(56:11) The dating crisis

(01:00:41) Why you should have sex before marriage

(01:03:29) Why is marriage good

(01:07:33) How likely you're to get divorced

(01:11:02) Step-parents vs biological parents

(01:14:47) Why are you saying these unpopular opinions

(01:19:50) The decline in birth rates

(01:25:16) What porn is doing to your brain

(01:30:16) Is reproduction at the heart of male motivation?

(01:31:03) Unwanted choking during sex

(01:33:24) Should we ban porn?

(01:40:36) What are we attracted to?

(01:44:50) Better looking people bias

(01:48:05) The last guest's question

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My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://smarturl.it/DOACbook

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The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

"Casual Sex Is Almost Always Dangerous For Women!" This Is What Casual Sex Is Really Doing To Women - Louise Perry

Episode guests

Podcast summary created with Snipd AI

Quick takeaways

Deep dives

The Risks and Impact of Casual Sex on Women

The Effects of Delayed Sexual Engagement on Men and Women

The Impact of the Sexual Revolution and Polygamous Systems

Understanding the Emotional Bonds and Social Implications of Sex

Navigating Dating Expectations and Social Pressures

Promoting Understanding and Structured Relationships

The Importance of Delaying Sex for Informed Decisions

The Significance of Marriage for Women in Childbearing

Impact of Pornography on Behavior and Society

The Impact of Education and Class on Marriage and Child Well-being

Cross-cultural Perspectives: Gender Responses to Propositions

Peak Ages and Testosterone in Sexual Violence

The Necessity of Social Structure and Conventions

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"Casual Sex Is Almost Always Dangerous For Women!" This Is What Casual Sex Is Really Doing To Women - Louise Perry

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Quick takeaways

Deep dives

The Risks and Impact of Casual Sex on Women

The Effects of Delayed Sexual Engagement on Men and Women

The Impact of the Sexual Revolution and Polygamous Systems

Understanding the Emotional Bonds and Social Implications of Sex

Navigating Dating Expectations and Social Pressures

Promoting Understanding and Structured Relationships

The Importance of Delaying Sex for Informed Decisions

The Significance of Marriage for Women in Childbearing

Impact of Pornography on Behavior and Society

The Impact of Education and Class on Marriage and Child Well-being

Cross-cultural Perspectives: Gender Responses to Propositions

Peak Ages and Testosterone in Sexual Violence

The Necessity of Social Structure and Conventions

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