The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

"Casual Sex Is Almost Always Dangerous For Women!" This Is What Casual Sex Is Really Doing To Women - Louise Perry

Jun 20, 2024

Louise Perry, journalist and author, discusses the dangers of casual sex for women, importance of trusting instincts, impact of dating apps on men, truth about sex on first dates, physical differences between genders, repercussions of casual sex on society, lack of communication hurting both genders, women's icks towards men, importance of women listening to instincts, societal views on gender roles in certain jobs

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Louise Perry

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Casual sex can be emotionally risky for women due to stronger post-sex bonds than men.

Societal focus on male preferences for casual sex may create unequal relationship dynamics.

Delaying sex until engagement can foster commitment and stability in relationships.

Open communication about sexual differences is crucial for healthy partnerships.

Challenges in modern dating require understanding of gender dynamics and relationship norms.

Deep dives

The Risks and Impact of Casual Sex on Women

Casual sex poses higher risks for women due to emotional bonding from sex being more profound for them than men, leading to potential misery. The societal focus on male preferences for casual sex can harm both men and women differently.

Stability in Marriage for Child's Benefit

01:50

Peak Ages and Testosterone in Sexual Violence

01:17

Attraction Disproportion in Dating Apps

00:34

Cross-cultural dating dynamics

00:43

Intro

2min

The Pill's Impact on Women's Roles and Sexual Dynamics

10min

Exploring Physical Differences Between Men and Women in Sports Performance

1min

Risks and Disparities in Casual Sex for Women

18min

The Power of Instincts and Gender Diversity

17min

Exploring the Influence of Social Media and Dating Apps on Modern Dating Norms

2min

Exploring the Impact of Delaying Sex and Cultural Norms on Relationships

10min

Complexities of Marriage, Motherhood, and Society's Shift in Attitudes

24min

Impact of Porn Consumption on Modern Dating in South Korea

16min

10.

Evolutionary Perspectives on Attraction

5min

11.

Exploring Disparities, Uncomfortable Conversations, and Reflections on Truth

3min

Has feminism failed women? Louise Perry uncovers the truth about sexual liberation

Louise Perry is a British journalist and host of the ‘Maiden Mother Matriarch’ podcast. She is also press officer for the charity, ‘We Can’t Consent To This’ and author of the book, ‘The Case Against The Sexual Revolution: A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century’.

In this conversation, Louise and Steven discuss topics such as, the dangers of casual sex for women, why you should trust your ‘icks’, how dating apps are making men lonely, and the truth about sex on a first date.

You can purchase Louise’s book, ‘The Case Against The Sexual Revolution: A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century’, here: https://amzn.to/3z60wqy

(0:00) Intro

(01:42) What are you trying to achieve??

(03:45) What does society disagree with you on?

(04:21) The trade-offs of the contraceptive pill

(05:30) How has sexual culture changed?

(06:59) Working in a rape crisis centre

(09:49) How to channel men's aggression in the right direction

(11:59) The physical differences between men and women

(13:28) How men and women differ in their view on sexuality

(14:58) Why men are more likely to have casual sex

(17:59) How does a culture of casual sex impact women

(23:31) Repercussions of casual sex in society

(28:54) The lack of communication and education is hurting both genders

(31:18) Why women have icks towards men

(33:30) Women should listen to their icks

(38:10) Women's 6th sense

(41:02) There are some jobs women shouldn't do due to biology

(46:44) Heroic masculinity

(48:22) Social media affecting our view on relationships & dating

(50:54) Wait until engagement to have sex

(56:11) The dating crisis

(01:00:41) Why you should have sex before marriage

(01:03:29) Why is marriage good

(01:07:33) How likely you're to get divorced

(01:11:02) Step-parents vs biological parents

(01:14:47) Why are you saying these unpopular opinions

(01:19:50) The decline in birth rates

(01:25:16) What porn is doing to your brain

(01:30:16) Is reproduction at the heart of male motivation?

(01:31:03) Unwanted choking during sex

(01:33:24) Should we ban porn?

(01:40:36) What are we attracted to?

(01:44:50) Better looking people bias

(01:48:05) The last guest's question

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My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://smarturl.it/DOACbook

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The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

"Casual Sex Is Almost Always Dangerous For Women!" This Is What Casual Sex Is Really Doing To Women - Louise Perry

Episode guests

Podcast summary created with Snipd AI

Quick takeaways

Deep dives

The Risks and Impact of Casual Sex on Women

The Effects of Delayed Sexual Engagement on Men and Women

The Impact of the Sexual Revolution and Polygamous Systems

Understanding the Emotional Bonds and Social Implications of Sex

Navigating Dating Expectations and Social Pressures

Promoting Understanding and Structured Relationships

The Importance of Delaying Sex for Informed Decisions

The Significance of Marriage for Women in Childbearing

Impact of Pornography on Behavior and Society

Stability in Marriage for Child's Benefit

Peak Ages and Testosterone in Sexual Violence

Attraction Disproportion in Dating Apps

Cross-cultural dating dynamics

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"Casual Sex Is Almost Always Dangerous For Women!" This Is What Casual Sex Is Really Doing To Women - Louise Perry

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Podcast summary created with Snipd AI

Quick takeaways

Deep dives

The Risks and Impact of Casual Sex on Women

The Effects of Delayed Sexual Engagement on Men and Women

The Impact of the Sexual Revolution and Polygamous Systems

Understanding the Emotional Bonds and Social Implications of Sex

Navigating Dating Expectations and Social Pressures

Promoting Understanding and Structured Relationships

The Importance of Delaying Sex for Informed Decisions

The Significance of Marriage for Women in Childbearing

Impact of Pornography on Behavior and Society

Stability in Marriage for Child's Benefit

Peak Ages and Testosterone in Sexual Violence

Attraction Disproportion in Dating Apps

Cross-cultural dating dynamics

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