Planning Your Fertility Future: Understanding Your Fertility (Plus Egg Freezing and IVF)

Jan 16, 2026

Planning your fertility future should be as intentional as planning a vacation. Humans only ovulate one egg per month, with a mere 15% chance of genetic health. It can take healthy couples 6-12 months to conceive, and up to 30% of pregnancies may end early. Egg freezing is framed as 'egg rescue,' a critical part of fertility treatment. The three-rule framework helps clarify your desires and necessary actions, particularly at 41, when the odds of genetic viability drop significantly. Prioritize health and preparedness for a smoother journey.

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INSIGHT

One Egg Per Month Limits Your Odds

Humans ovulate one egg per month and each ovulated egg has about a 15% chance of being genetically healthy in your twenties.
Fertility declines with age, so each month's single chance matters for long-term family planning.

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Conception Timelines And Early Loss

Getting pregnant often takes time: many couples need 6–12 months and about one in eight may take longer.
Early pregnancy loss affects roughly 20–30% of pregnancies and is usually not anyone's fault.

ADVICE

Treat Egg Freezing As Egg Rescue

Consider egg freezing as a way to rescue eggs now rather than lose them to age-related decline.
Treat fertility treatment as egg rescue, not depletion, and check your fertility levels early.

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In this episode, I'm breaking down something that should be simple but often isn't: how to plan your fertility future. You don't need to be a fertility specialist or have a science degree to understand the basics of fertility planning. I want everyone to approach this the same way you'd plan a vacation: with intention, research, and realistic expectations. The most important thing I want you to know? Humans ovulate just one egg per month, and that egg only has about a 15% chance of being genetically healthy, even in our twenties. This fundamental truth changes everything about how we should approach family planning. Throughout this episode, I share my three-rule framework that I live by: What do I want? What is it going to take to get what I want? And am I willing to do it? When applied to fertility, these questions help you get concrete and honest about your timeline, your options, and the steps you need to take now to avoid struggle later. I explain why fertility treatment is really about "egg rescue" - saving eggs from being lost forever - and why planning your fertility deserves at least as much attention as planning that dream vacation to the Maldives. In this episode, we cover:

Understanding that we ovulate only one egg per month with a 15% chance of genetic viability at best
The reality of conception timelines: why it can take 6-12 months for healthy couples to conceive
Miscarriage statistics and why 20-30% of pregnancies end in the first trimester through no fault of your own
The three-question framework for planning your fertility future: what you want, what it takes, and your willingness to act
How egg freezing works as "IVF without the F" and why it's about rescuing eggs, not depleting them
Age-related fertility decline: why your chances at 41 (10% viable eggs) are dramatically different than in your twenties
Preparing for pregnancy like you'd prepare for a vacation: getting medically ready, addressing health issues, and genetic carrier screening

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