

135 - Navigating Sobriety: Expect the Unexpected
6 snips Sep 24, 2025
Kylene and Patrick delve into the unexpected challenges of early sobriety from sex addiction. They discuss common experiences like intrusive thoughts, nocturnal emissions, and a range of emotions that arise during recovery. With practical coping strategies in hand, they stress the importance of making conscious choices rather than succumbing to automatic behaviors. The conversation highlights the need for connection, offering tools like breathing exercises and journaling to better navigate stress and emotional turbulence.
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Addiction Rewires Familiarity
- Addiction rebuilds brain familiarity so stopping creates strong internal signals.
- Recovery is removing old 'train tracks' then building new healthy patterns over time.
Dreams Are Processing, Not Failure
- Dreams and intrusive sexual thoughts are normal processing steps in early sobriety.
- They indicate the brain is filing old patterns, not an automatic relapse.
Talk Intrusive Thoughts Out
- Do not personalize intrusive thoughts; don't build stories or shame around them.
- Talk them through with your accountability partner or group instead of ruminating alone.