Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2808: 3 Smart Alternatives to Merging Money in Marriage by Andy Hill of Marriage Kids and Money on Financial Autonomy
Nov 23, 2025
Explore innovative approaches to managing finances in marriage without fully merging accounts. Discover the benefits of maintaining separate finances, the 'yours, mine, and ours' strategy, and a joint account with guilty-free allowances. Real-life examples highlight how shared values matter more than financial arrangements. Find out how couples can reduce tension and align their money management with relationship goals, ensuring financial independence and harmony.
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Merged Finances Brought Big Wins
- Andy Hill and his wife merged finances for eight years and saw big wins like paying off debt and a mortgage.
- Despite financial success, recurring money disagreements prompted him to explore alternatives to merging accounts.
Keep Completely Separate Accounts
- Do consider keeping completely separate accounts and splitting bills while sharing a joint savings account.
- Plan who pays which expenses and account for job changes or one partner staying home.
Use Yours, Mine, And Ours
- Try a 'yours, mine, ours' system with a joint account for fixed household costs and separate personal accounts.
- Automate transfers into the shared account to simplify bill payments and reduce petty fights.