Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 993

Nov 11, 2025
Peter Rothblatt, a writer and commentator, joins to provide political insights, discussing the challenges of being an ally when navigating sensitive topics with teens. Dr. Anna Moore, a veterinarian and chief operating officer at Urban Animal, hilariously tackles a peculiar listener query: is it acceptable for a cat to hump a person's leg? She shares intriguing insights into feline behavior and boundaries. The conversation also dives into the anatomy of pleasure, including the puzzling allure of choking in intimate experiences.
Ask episode
AI Snips
Chapters
Transcript
Episode notes
INSIGHT

Blue Tsunami And Demographic Shifts

  • Peter Rothblatt argues recent elections showed a strong leftward swing and demographic shifts favoring Democrats.
  • He credits targeted candidate selection and outreach to Hispanic and young voters for the wins.
ADVICE

Explicitly Ban Choking Before Sex

  • Dan Savage advises women to leave or insist if a partner tries choking without consent and to state boundaries ahead of sex.
  • He recommends explicitly telling partners "I'm not into choking" before sexual activity to prevent assumptions.
INSIGHT

Porn Normalizes Risky Sexual Practices

  • Dan Savage notes porn mainstreamed choking, normalizing a risky niche into perceived vanilla behavior.
  • He worries UK criminalization could repeat past moralistic prosecutions like Operation Spanner.
Get the Snipd Podcast app to discover more snips from this episode
Get the app