The Therapy Edit Ask Anna - I cannot stand my in-laws
Jan 27, 2025
Join comedians Ellie Gibson and Helen Thorn, the dynamic duo behind The Scummy Mummies, as they tackle a listener's troubling in-law issues. They delve into how a lack of support from a partner can be hurtful and discuss why some avoid confronting family conflicts. Expect practical strategies like setting boundaries and modeling healthy interactions for children. With Ellie’s humorous approach, they explore the 'so what' mindset to lessen fear around confrontation. This lively chat is packed with relatable insights and laughter!
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Plan A Private, Practical Conversation
- Talk privately with your husband about how his silence hurts and ask for specific support he can give later if not in the moment.
- Suggest he take his parent aside afterwards or set a plan so accountability happens without explosive conflict.
Conflict Styles Come From Family History
- Different families normalise different conflict styles, so partners may avoid confrontation because they learned that pattern.
- Understanding those patterns explains why a partner might prioritise peace over immediate defense.
Limit Exposure And Change The Setting
- Reduce exposure by changing the setting: avoid inviting them into your home or choose public venues for gatherings.
- 'Dilute' family gatherings with other guests to encourage politeness and safer behavior.