In this conversation, Ryan Gottfredson, a leadership professor and best-selling author, explores the transformative journey of becoming a better leader. He emphasizes the importance of navigating personal emotional complexity and fostering supportive community environments. Ryan discusses the impact of physical spaces on spiritual growth and the role of mental blocks in personal development. He advocates for a balanced approach in leadership that intertwines action with genuine personal healing, encouraging deeper self-awareness for effective leadership.
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Vertical Development Transforms Being
Vertical development elevates our internal operating system instead of just adding skills.
Focusing on our "being side" transforms us, unlike horizontal development that only improves "doing" abilities.
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Gospel Focuses on Healing and Becoming
The gospel is about becoming like Christ through healing our minds, bodies, and hearts.
Healing transforms us from survival mode to purposeful leaders, not just by doing more.
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Leaders Must Heal Themselves
Leaders must do their own healing to effectively help others heal.
Engage in personal work like therapy to grow emotionally and lead better.
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Ryan Gottfredson, Ph.D. is a cutting-edge leadership development author, researcher, and consultant. He helps organizations vertically develop their leaders primarily through a focus on mindsets. Ryan is the Wall Street Journal and USA Today best-selling author of Success Mindsets, The Elevated Leader, and Becoming Better. He is also a leadership professor at the College of Business and Economics at California State University-Fullerton.
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Ryan's books:
Becoming Better: The Groundbreaking Science of Personal Transformation
Success Mindsets: The Key to Unlocking Greater Success in Your Life, Work, & Leadership
The Elevated Leader: Leveling Up Your Leadership Through Vertical Development
Previous podcasts with Ryan:
What About Our Culture is Holding Us Back?
Is There a Correlation Between Losing Faith and Moving?
The Research Behind Becoming Christlike
Is Your Mindset Limiting Your Leadership?
What Every Leader Should Consider About Community in Their Ward
Articles by Ryan at LeadingSaints.org
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Highlights
Ryan talks about personal development and becoming better leaders through understanding our own complexities and healing. He explores the science of sanctification and the difference between merely doing better and truly becoming better, focusing on our "being side"—the quality of our internal operating system—rather than just our "doing side," which encompasses our skills and knowledge. Learning this distinction can help leaders as they support others who are struggling in their lives.
Ryan explains how our relationships with risk, failure, conflict, and even ourselves can reveal the quality of our being. Many leaders operate from a place of fear or insecurity, which can limit their effectiveness and impact. Ryan explores the concept of the "window of tolerance," which refers to our ability to manage stress and emotional responses. He explains how a narrow window can lead to reactivity, while a wider window allows for greater emotional regulation and resilience. Understanding this can help leaders create a supportive environment for their congregations. Ryan also encourages leaders to consider their own journeys and the areas where they may need healing.
00:02:00 - The evolution of Ryan's books and the deepening of his leadership concepts
00:05:00 - Mindsets and the difference between vertical and horizontal development in leadership
00:07:00 - The Being Side vs. Doing Side: The importance of focusing on the "being" side of leadership for transformational growth
00:09:00 - Connection between leadership principles and gospel teachings, emphasizing the importance of becoming
00:10:30 - The role of personal healing in effective leadership and the importance of self-awareness
00:12:00 - The window of tolerance and its relevance to emotional regulation
00:15:00 - Personal complexity and its impact on leadership effectiveness
00:20:00 - Exploration of emotional complexity and self-complexity in leaders
00:25:00 - Examining leaders' relationships with risk, failure, and conflict as indicators of their health
00:30:00 - Contrast between survival-focused leadership and purpose-driven leadership
00:35:00 - Investigating the quality of relationships with self, others, and various challenges
00:40:00 - The challenges of people-pleasing and its impact on leadership effectiveness
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